My First Threesome and I Couldn’t Get it Up

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Not so long ago I had an opportunity to fulfill one of my greatest long time fantasies: a romp in the sack with two women at the same time! Aside from a few jitters after I’d set things up, I was feeling calm and cool on the day of my ménage à trois premier.

As things began, my mind started to run wild. This is the hottest experience I can dream of. I’ve fantasized about this moment since I was a teenager. I must be the luckiest man alive, at least in this particular moment.

One of my new friends got things going with an, uh, rather sloppy oral engagement and then the other joined her. giving me that mental picture I’d always imagined. Watching them work together had my mind spinning in every direction.

Finally, it was time to switch to a position where I could be on top, but first things first: always practice safe sex. I grabbed the trojan and started to unroll it onto my now-quite-erect shaft, but then… something extraordinarily disconcerting started to happen. My closest little buddy started to go a bit limp on me. My manhood suddenly couldn’t take the heat. What in the fuck little guy, this is our moment! We’ve been working on getting here since we first started to really, uh, work together. But things just got worse. The more I tried to concentrate on getting my hard-on back, the softer I got.

The taller of the two ladies jumped in to help with her mouth and while there was a little sputter of power, he just wasn’t responding. It was like there wasn’t any sensation; or that sensation was somehow not translating into getting hard. As I looked at the incredibly hot, nearly naked ladies at my sides, every thought in my incapacitated brain screamed this moment should be making me rock hard. But it just wasn’t there. This is impossible!

Try as I might, I simply could not get it up, no matter how worked up my two partners tried to get me. After what seemed like an eternity, I made a feeble excuse. Maybe I didn’t sleep too well last night. To say that I was embarrassed is an understatement!

We gave up. The mood was ruined.

As I showered alone, I couldn’t’ believe what my body had done to me. The little traitor!

On the drive home, reliving the moment in shame and angst, I remembered the moment the first woman’s red lips slowly sank down over me. And in that moment, I felt a little pulse of energy in my crotch. That image of the two of them working together. BOOM, raging boner. Right there in my car.

This is unbelievable, how can I get a 100% erection here, alone, and yet in the moment it should have been easiest, it wasn’t achievable?

I allowed my nerves to get the best of me

In that moment, I was so overcome by the desire to perform, that I basically shot myself in the foot. Had I taken more time to calm myself down and focus on pleasing my two bed-mates instead of worrying about myself, I’d have had a good chance of getting things fired up again, if you know what I mean.

Now that it’s been several years, and quite a few successful ménage à trois experiences since, I can say without a doubt that going in with confidence and having a good time is all about mental state.

For the next handful of threesome meetups and group parties, I made sure to take a dose of viagra (sildenafil citrate) about an hour before going in. This no doubt improved my confidence level but it also made getting and keeping that erection a lot easier.

I also found that using a cock ring can both help sustain an erection and delay ejaculation. Additionally, avoiding masturbation for a couple of days before the big event and eating well so that I’m not feeling bloated or fatigued.

Now when I am approaching an event with a new partner, I know what to expect. I dose myself for that confidence boost. At the same time, if I find that I’m still getting soft in the moment, I try to be kind to myself. This is quite normal, and if we slow down and change the focus to her body, my body will come back around to things momentarily.

Have you ever had a similar experience? Do you have a wild and yet unfulfilled fantasy?

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